Getting Back Together With Your Ex – Do Not Lose Control

Published: 15th September 2008
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While breaking up can be very devastating to anyone, no matter who initiated the break up, it doesn't always have to be the end of a story. The fact is, many people have broken up with their ex, but quite a number of them still manage to win back their ex.

Of course, that's not to say that you will definitely be able to get your ex boyfriend or girlfriend back. It really depends on the situation and every situation is unique and different. In fact, sometimes, getting back together is not necessary a good option. Sometimes, you may indeed be better off if you are able to let go of your relationship.

However, if you truly believe that this relationship is worth saving and you believe that both of you still love each other, then there are definitely things you can do to improve your chances of getting back together with your ex.

Perhaps one of the most important precautions you can take is to avoid making mistakes. Not that I am trying to be negative or to spoil your mood, but the fact is that many men and women are prone to making certain mistakes, especially just after a break up.

These mistakes are rather common. Even though just now, I mentioned that every situation is unique, but when it comes to these mistakes, they seem to be fairly common regardless of the situation.

For example, one of the worst things you can do is to act out of desperation. We have to know that desperation is never going to help. It is almost guaranteed to make matter worse. Therefore, you should always strive to avoid actions that will make your ex perceive you as being a desperate person.

Here are some good examples of desperation.

Let us look at Tom and Jane. Jane has decided to break up with Tom. So what did Tom do?

Well, he made a very common mistake. He tried calling Jane. Jane did not answer the phone. It seems that Jane was purposely avoiding and ignoring Tom.

Now, Tom is starting to panic. He keeps on calling and calling and calling, hoping that Jane will finally relent and pick up the phone.

Well, guess what? Not only did Jane refuse to pick up the phone, she is also beginning to feel a bit irritated.

So, can you see what mistake Tom has made? Well, Tom has called Jane too often. By doing so, Jane immediately knows that Tom is feeling desperate. This is only going to push Jane further away.

In fact, there are many other common mistakes but we won't be able to discuss them all in this article.

If you are thinking of getting back together with your ex boyfriend or girlfriend, try not to lose control and act out of desperation. By not making those mistakes, your chances of getting back together with your ex will be so much better.
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